My grandmother (from my motherside) passsed away last saturday night. She died alone in bed at night around 11pm after my mother left her side at 10pm. Here are three things that i’ve learned for her passing.

1. My father treated his adopted mother, who passed away in 2003, way better than any of my uncles and aunts treated my grandmother. Yes, i am biase because i can be.

2. My mother is extremely hard-headed but also extremely soft-hearted. My aunt told me over the phone that she couldnt bear losing her mother. She told me again over the phone tonight.

3. I am the combination of both my parents and i shall thank God for them.